Can I come without my partner?

Yes. Many people start on their own, and the work can still change the relationship. Together we look at your side of it: your feelings, needs, and patterns.

Is online couples therapy effective?

Many couples find it easier to open up from home. You'll each need a quiet, private space, together or in separate rooms.

No. My role is to help both of you be heard and to understand the pattern between you.

Can therapy help after an affair?

Yes. Many couples come after a betrayal. Therapy gives you a contained space to understand what happened and decide what comes next.

What if we're thinking of separating?

Therapy can help you decide, or help you separate with less conflict, especially if you're co-parenting.

Do you also work with sexual difficulties?

Yes. See [Psychosexual Therapy].

Relationship Therapy | For Samor

Relationship Therapy

Low-cost relationship therapy for individuals and couples.

Online across the UK, 50 minutes, £60.

When the same argument keeps coming back, or you feel far away from someone you love, it's rarely just about the argument. Our patterns in relationships are often shaped by what we learned about closeness long before we met our partner, and by the pressures life puts on us now.

Relationship therapy gives you space to slow down, understand what's happening between you, and find a different way of meeting each other. That might mean finding your way back to each other, or finding a kinder way through a change.

What we can work on

Communication
Conflict and recurring arguments
Trust and infidelity: recovering after an affair, a betrayal
Emotional disconnection: living side by side but feeling far apart
Intimacy and connection: losing closeness, affection or desire
Work and family pressures: stress, caring responsibilities and busy lives
Parenting: becoming parents, disagreeing about children
Separation and change: deciding whether to stay, or separate
Boundaries and needs: people-pleasing, fear of closeness.

How I work with couples

We look at what happens in the moment: the words, but also what your body does when conflict starts, and the old patterns that switch on. My approach is relational and attachment-informed, so we pay attention to what each of you needs to feel safe enough to stay connected.

I stay on the side of the relationship rather than either person, so both of you can be heard. Sessions can include practical tools for communicating and repairing after conflict, as well as exploring the deeper patterns underneath.

What can change

Over time, many couples and individuals notice:

Arguments that calm down sooner, or don't escalate
Feeling heard, and able to say what they need
More warmth, closeness and trust
A clearer sense of what they want from the relationship or not

How it works

A free 20-minute call. We talk about what's bringing you here and whether working together feels right.
A first full assesment session to understand your relationship, its history and what you'd like to change.
In the next session, we agree together what we'll focus on and roughly how many sessions might help.
We meet weekly, and review how things are going along the way, adjusting the plan as needed.

50 minutes · online · £60 (Low-cost completing my training, in supervised practice)

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